Episode 6: “Can I Really Have It All?” Solo Episode with Stephanie Ghoston Paul

Episode Summary:

In this episode, I answer the age-old question “can I really have it all?”

To answer it, first consider:

• The WHAT of “can I really have it all” - list what you’re referring to as “ALL” and then…

  • reflect if you’ve set up a binary (thing 1 vs thing 2) opposed to thing 1 AND thing 2

  • weigh the real and perceived constraints: name the real limitations and challenge “this is just how it’s always been done” thinking

• The WHEN of “can I really have it all” - do you need it ALL at once, and now? Having it all means nothing if you can’t keep it

• The HOW of “can I really have it all” - to what standard are you expecting to have it all? We tend to want to be the best at everything we do and are unfamiliar with being new to something, and all that it entails

You’ll have to listen to the episode to find out my ANSWER, as well as three crucial next steps to navigating this dilemma! Let me know what you think!