Life Coach, Community Workshop Leader and Racial Justice Facilitator, helping people and institutions get free.
 
 

You are enough.

Although the world may try to convince you otherwise, there are no ifs ands, or buts about it. Our work together can help you embrace this truth and live from within it.

 
 
 
 
 
I will carry the knowledge Stephanie shared with me for the rest of my life. She helped me realize the life I can have when I take control of my emotions and my boundaries.
— IMAN M
 
 
 
 

Changing the world doesn’t mean neglecting yourself.

You didn’t become a movement-maker because you thought it was going to be 24/7 fun. You did it because you knew that the ones coming up behind you (i.e., your younger siblings or cousins) deserved better. They deserved more, and you’ve become a key piece in creating the conditions for them to thrive.

But at what point did building a better world mean demolishing yourself? When did it turn into sacrificing your boundaries or divorcing your desires? When did it get in the way of exploring the expansiveness of the things that lit you up and gave you unabashed freedom? And at what point do you get back to giving yourself that?

 

 

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It’s time to get off the strug-ney.

AKA, THE STRUGGLE JOURNEY

Your journey, up until this point, has been selfless only because we were taught that it was bad to be selfish. Yet, being selfless has taken its toll on you. It’s robbed you of your time and your space. It’s robbed you of YOU, and it’s time to unlearn these habits. It’s time to lay yo ass down and rest.

It’s time to prioritize your needs in health, love, and life so that you can reconnect with who you are at your core. It’s time to stop settling for the limitations of others and give yourself permission to operate in your full power.

 
 

Say YES to being free, whole, empowered, and liberated.

No matter where you are in your strug-ney, I’m ready to meet you and support you as you continue to change the whole while being more of who you know yourself to be.

 
 

POWER HOUR

Need support moving through a block or challenge NOW? Book one hour with me, and I’ll help you gain clarity on the root of the problem and help you develop clear steps on how to move forward.

CUSTOMIZED PACKAGES

This is where your journey of self-liberation begins. Over the course of 3 months, with sessions customized to your preference, we’ll explore one area of your life in depth or lay the foundation for healthy habits as we build your sense of self.

GLOBAL TOUR: 6 MONTHS

If you’re ready to fully come off autopilot, then the Global tour is your invitation to do it. Over 6 months, we’ll spend time integrating new habits and tackling negative patterns/limiting beliefs head-on so you can begin embodying your freedom.

 
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My work with Stephanie was transformative. Stephanie’s observant, incisive, and endlessly empathetic coaching supported what is the most satisfying work of my life – becoming the woman that my ancestors dreamed me to be. She has challenged me to trust myself as I seek liberation and joy.
— SHELLY H.
 
 
 
 

I won’t take you anywhere I haven’t been.

MEET YOUR COACH STEPHANIE GHOSTON PAUL

I’m not your average life coach. While many coaches out in these internet streets might ask you to mold yourself into someone you’re not, I’m not interested in that. I believe you already have what you need to succeed, and I’m here to help you cultivate just that.

Using a mix of logistics (I make a mean strategic roadmap) and woo-woo (yes, I can pull out my divination decks with the best of them), I help you get to the heart of the conditioning that made you feel as though you weren’t enough. I help you create time, develop space, and deepen healing so that you can fully realize your wildest freedom dreams and tap into your power.

And believe me, because I am on my own path, I understand how scary it can be– untangling yourself from the person you’ve had to be to survive with the person you truly are on the inside. This is why, no matter what capacity we work in, I won’t ever ask you to try or do anything I haven’t.

As an Aquarius double Libra, my passion is people, getting in the right relationship–with ourselves. And helping you find your purpose. And holding a vision of yourself until you’re ready to hold it yourself. Even though you may have lost your way from a balanced center, it’s my honor to show you that you can find your way back, even if you have to wade your way through a messy middle.

 
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My life has changed tremendously. I am much more assertive about my boundaries and intentions. I no longer just say yes to any opportunity because I realize I am a person of value and that I can choose strategically who I interact with. I have reached another level of happiness.
— IMAN M.
 
 
 

You were never given the blueprint. Let me help you create it.

Our ancestors laid the foundation for this kind of work. The work that takes you to the depths of who you are and requires that you know that you are more than enough. The work that shows you, you’ve always been free. And although it’s been a while since you’ve tapped into to these parts of yourself, you already have the tools to go there.

When you listen to yourself, believe yourself, and act on your truth, you create your blueprint for peace, wholeness, and ease. And if you don’t know how to navigate this journey, I’d be honored to help you. As someone who’s done this work, I can help surface and catalyze the self- and community-care practices needed to celebrate your enough-ness and to usher you to your freedom and our collective liberation.